good morning people,
i got nothing to do rite now, so i shall update my blog,
hmm..*thinking*
throughout almost 2 years i've been here,
in Ipsah, i learnt a lot and i observed a lot and i discovered a lot,
about what?
about types of friends and friendship,
there 2 types of friends that i discovered,
1st,
friends who are not closer to you,
they don't care much about you,
and definitely they don't hurt you or do anything that can make you upset,
why? i told you, they are not close to you,
so they don't have any reason to hurt you or make you upset.
2nd,
friends who are so close to you, inseparable
friends who vowed to stay together forever,
but still, they ignore you,
and keep hurting you and making you upset.
i wonder why?
is it because they are so close to you,
so they have right to hurt you, to ignore you,
upsetting you with their cold behavior and harsh words,
hmm..all this are unanswerable,
i don't know the reason why they did that,
why shouldn't we treat our best friends nicely,
avoid doing anything that can hurt their feelings,
respect them, listen to them, and looking at their faces when speaking,
speak to them nicely and give fair treatment to all your best friends,
if you like this particular friend,
don't discriminate others,
others do have feelings too,
and want to be noticed and accepted,
why is it so hard to cultivate these positive things into each one of us?
friends come and go,
if we don't take any initiative to strengthen the friendship,
the friendship would become useless and valueless,
this advice is to all people out there,
if you have best friends or friends that are close to you,
do make them happy, treat them nicely,
appreciate them,
because if you don't do this, they will run away and find other friends,
i've experienced this situation before, and it still keep going on now,
i really hope that my best friends,
will stop hurting me and making me upset,
why is it people that i love and care so much keep hurting me??
i kept this question all this while,
"Do true friends exist??"
hmm..i let you people answer it for me,
ok then,
farewell..
with love,
Kuceng Sepi =(
8 comments:
don't worry
abg kan ade...
:)
hey i've been there. Choose ur fren wisely.. the 1 u try to be close with might not hv d same chemistry wit u and it doesnt end up well. I think less expectations from this type of unnatural frens means less disappointment.
tina...true friend mmg exist..i've found one..
rugi la org yg x nmpk kebaikan tina ni..aish rugi2..
you're one of the friend I've wished for..and sorry if I did hurt u or whatsoever..
we might not be that close but in my heart i'll always regard u of someone special in my heart..
and ssh ok nk msk hati att wawawa
hmm.. very unsangkerable.. huhu
true friend does exist..
cuma kita je yg tak nampak..
happy to be ur friend..
even we're not so close..
=)
tq everyone for your words,
it's very helpful to me.
maybe i'll change my belief one day that true friends do exist.
True friends does exist.. :)
dat 2 types of frens u mentioned arent always true.
dats perception, n we can change that.
if they hurt us, tengok balik. maybe we did hurt em dulu.
maybe.
:)
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